Sacrament of Reconciliation
God is Love, the willful act of willing the good of the other for the other. This willful act is not based on our behavior, there is nothing we can do which can cause God to love us any less and nothing we can do which will cause Him to love us anymore. God’s unconditional love, seen by us as Divine Mercy is a lot bigger than His judgment of what pleases Him and what doesn’t. God’s forgiveness comes to us as freely as the next breath we take, however it is through the Sacrament of Reconciliation that our relationship with Him is put back in its rightful order; we are healed because our relationship with Him is healed, reestablished, refreshed and restored; not because we are forgiven and not because our behavior has drastically changed. It’s not about the gift we received, it’s about the gift He is giving; and I suppose ultimately is comes down to what extent I can receive and accept His grace in the sense I can only be forgiven to the depth of what I can confess.
Secondly theology is built on solid philosophy and healthy psychology. Faith elevates me above the study of God to a relationship with God. Faith is also a gift freely given. What I have to do is recognize and accept the total miracle of The Sacrament. I have to understand I have been forgiven even if I can’t forget about what I have done. I have to trust that the world has been set straight even if I can’t see it. If I’m to walk out of the confessional feeling free, happy, forgiven and grateful then I have to completely trust that Christ Jesus is who He said He is and that I am a child of God, who has just been given another last second chance.
One more thought. Certainly it is about the forgiveness, but more than that; it’s about healing the wounds and renewing the relationship. More than the world being set straight it’s about everyone who has been hurt by the pain and confusion I caused in their lives, will receive the same consolation which I received. And its knowing that the events which are about to unfold in my life are in harmony with His plan even if I don’t understand it. Yes I will trust in the Lord, in His hope I find joy